2022年4月27日星期三

Friend distance

最好的朋友,也许不在身边,而在远方。

他跟你,相隔十万八千里,身处不同的国家,各有各的生活,然而,你却会把最私密的事告诉他。

把心事告诉他,那是最安全的。因为,他也许从未见过你在信上所说的那些人,他绝对不会有一天闯进你的圈子。最重要的,是他远在他方,他即使知道得最多,仍然是最安全的。

许多年前,一个比我高一班的女孩子到美国求学,我们本来只是很普通的朋友,她到了美国之后,也许寂寞吧,常给我写信,向来懒得写信的我,因为感动,也常写信给她。在信中,我们可以坦荡荡的把最私密的事告诉对方,寻求对方的意见,我们甚至毋须在信上叮嘱对方,不要把这些事告诉任何人,她深深知道,我不会把她的事告诉我身边的人,她也不会。那些信任,是我们共享的秘密,我成为她最好的朋友。

在她留学的那三年里,我们只是通信而没有见面。然而,当她从美国回来,我们的友情却是三年前无法比拟的,仿佛是最好的故人重逢。

原来,最好的朋友,还是应该有距离。那段在地球上的遥远距离,正好把你们的距离拉近。

Your best friend may be far away from you. He's a million miles away from you, in different countries, with different lives, and yet, you tell him the most intimate things. It's safest to tell him what's on your mind. Because he may never have met the people you mentioned in your letter, and he will never break into your circle one day. The important thing is that he's far away, and even if he knows best, he's still the safest. Many years ago, a girl who was a grade above me came to the United States to study. We were just ordinary friends. After she came to the United States, she was perhaps lonely. She often wrote to me. I never bothered to write, i wrote to her because I was moved. In the letter, we can openly tell each other the most intimate things, seek each other's advice, we do not even have to tell each other in the letter, do not tell these things to anyone, she knows very well, i Won't tell anyone about her, and neither will she. The Trust, the secrets we shared, I became her best friend. During the three years she studied abroad, we corresponded but did not meet. However, when she returned from the United States, our friendship was unmatched three years ago, as if the best old friends meet again. It turns out that best friends should be kept at arm's length. The distance from Earth brings you closer together.

标题: 朋友的距离
作者: 张小娴
字数: 423
简介: 最好的朋友,也许不在身边,而在远方。他跟你,相隔十万八千里,身处不同的国家,各有各的生活,然而,你却会把最私密的事告诉他。把心事告诉他,那是

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