一盏一直亮着的灯，你不会去注意，但是如果它一亮一灭，你就会注意到。
每天吃饭、睡觉、上学、上班，你不会觉得自己幸福，但是当有一天你遭遇了大病、失业、失学、失亲，然后，事情过了，你突然对眼前的一切特别珍视。你觉得太感谢老天，觉得老天太厚待自己，觉得自己太幸福了。
这就叫“人在福中不知福”，只有当某一天，把你拉出福去，你才懂得。
有一首流行老歌《思念总在分手后》讲的也是这个道理：两个人天天在一起，越来越觉得平淡，直到厌了、分了，才突然发觉“过去的深情”。
工作也一样。你会发现许多人有着令大家羡慕的工作，但是某一天，他居然辞了职。
最后，他另找工作，却再也找不到像过去那么好的。
你可以猜：那时候，他一定会偷偷后悔。
问题是——这是人性。
人天生就喜欢冒险、喜欢新奇、喜欢云霄飞车的感觉，也可以说人天生就不喜欢“过度的平静”。
所以，你处在一个隔音室里，四周一点点声音都没有，你不见得感觉宁静，你反而会听到一种近乎耳鸣的喧哗声从你身体里面发出。相反，如果你置身在森林，有竹韵、松涛、鸟啭、虫鸣、水流，你却觉得宁静极了。
人不能长处在平静之中，太平静、太没变化，会使人不安，甚至发疯。
于是聪明的医生，当你没病找病，去找他诉苦的时候，即使他一眼就看出你没毛病，也会细细地听听、打打、敲敲、压压，再神情严肃地开几味药(天知道!可能只是维生素、镇静剂)，又叮嘱你“过两个星期再来”。
两个星期之后，你又去了，他再细细检查，笑说有进步，又开药，又要你隔周再来。
你又去了，他检查、再检查，拍拍你的肩：“恭喜你，病全好了。”你岂不是感激涕零，要谢谢他这位神医吗?
懂得经营大企业的老板，绝不提早发布“今年会发多少年终奖金”的消息，因为当你这么一说，就变成了“当然”，你当然得信守诺言，当然得“如数发给”。
于是，从你这么一说，你就欠员工的。
反而是，你可以先放空气，说今年的景气不好，怕发不出来，甚至有可能裁员。于是人心惶惶，员工非但不再指望发多少年终奖金，而是生怕自己被裁。
结果，当你不但不裁员，反而说“亏损由我吃下，员工福利不可少”，而再多多少少发了些奖金时，你得到的是掌声，是感谢，是坐云霄飞车，吓得半死之后终于到站的笑容。你很高明!对不对?
这就是人性!人性多么可悲啊，人居然像猴子，由“朝三暮四”，换成“朝四暮三”，换汤不换药，猴子就会高兴。
问题是，作为人，如果没点儿合理与不合理的变化，生活还有什么意思?
A light that's always on, you don't notice it, but if it's on and off, you notice it. You Don't feel happy eating, sleeping, going to school, going to work every day, but then one day you get sick, unemployed, out of school, divorced, and then it's over, you suddenly value what's right in front of you. You Think You're too grateful, you think you're too blessed, you think you're too happy. This is called "people don't know happiness in happiness", only when one day, pull you out of happiness, you will understand. " < p > there is a popular old song, "miss always after the break up" tells the same truth: two people every day together, more and more feel insipid, until tired, divided, only suddenly found "past affection. The same goes for work. You'll find a lot of people who have jobs that everyone envies, and then one day, he quits. In the end, he found another job, but he couldn't find anyone as good as he used to. You can guess that he will secretly regret it then. The problem is -- it's human nature. People naturally like adventure, novelty, and the feeling of a roller coaster. or they are naturally averse to "excessive calm.". So, you're in a soundproof room, and there's not a sound around you. You Don't feel peaceful. Instead, you hear a noise that sounds like tinnitus coming from inside your body. On the contrary, if you are in the forest, there are bamboo rhyme, pine waves, birds, insects, water, you feel very quiet. One can not be at peace. Too much peace, too little change, makes one uneasy, even mad. So the wise doctor, when you go to him and tell him that you are not ill, even if he sees that you are not ill at once, will listen carefully, beat, beat, and press, and prescribe some serious medicine (who knows! It might just be vitamins, sedatives) , he said, "come back in a couple of weeks.". Two weeks later, you went back, he double-checked, laughed at the improvement, gave you a prescription, and asked you to come back every other week. You went again, and he examined you, and examined you, and patted you on the shoulder, and said, "Congratulations, you're all right."? Bosses who know how to run large companies should never announce "how much year-end bonus will be paid this year" ahead of time, because when you say it, it becomes "of course" and you have to keep your word, of course, you have to "hand it out". So, when you put it like that, you owe the staff. Instead, you can let the air out and say that this year is bad, that you won't be able to deliver, that you might even be able to lay off workers. So panic, employees no longer expect how much year-end bonus, but fear of being made redundant. As a result, instead of laying off workers, you get applause, thanks, and rides on roller coasters when you say, "I eat the losses, employee benefits are essential," and give out more or less bonuses, when I finally got to my stop after being scared half to death. You're brilliant! Right? That's human nature! How Sad Human Nature Ah, people actually like monkeys, from "three-way-four-way" to "four-way-three-way-four-way", the same thing, the monkey will be happy. The question is, what is life as a human being without a few reasonable and unreasonable changes? 标题: 你不可不知的人生作者: 刘墉
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简介: 一盏一直亮着的灯，你不会去注意，但是如果它一亮一灭，你就会注意到。每天吃饭、睡觉、上学、上班，你不会觉得自己幸福，但是当有一天你遭遇了大病、
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