Imperfect. Perfect

我有一个朋友，单身半辈子，快五十岁时突然结了婚。新娘跟他的年龄差不多，徐娘半老，风韵犹存，只是知道的朋友都窃窃私语：“那女人以前是个演员，嫁了两任丈夫，都离了，现在不红了，由他捡了个剩货。”

不知道是不是话传到了他耳里。有一天，他跟我出去，一边开车，一边笑道：“我这个人，年轻的时候就盼开奔驰车，没钱，买不起。现在呀，还是买不起，买了辆三手车。”

他开的确实是辆老奔驰。我左右看看说：“三手？看来很好哇！马力也足。”

“是啊！”他大笑了起来，“旧车有什么不好？就好像我太太，前面嫁个四川人，又嫁个上海人，还在演艺圈二十多年，大大小小的场面见多了，现在老了，收了心，没了以前的娇气、浮华气，却做得一手四川菜、上海菜，又懂得布置家。讲句实在话，她真正最完美的时候反而被我遇上了。”

我说：“别人不说，我真看不出她竟然是当年的那位艳星。”

“是啊！”他拍着方向盘，“其实想想我自己，我又完美吗？我还不是千疮百孔，有过许多往事，许多荒唐。正因为我们都经历了这些，所以都成熟，都知道让，都知道忍。这不完美？这正是一种完美啊！”

不完美正是一种完美！我们老了，锈了，千疮百孔，隔一阵子就需要去看医生，来修补我们残破的身躯，我们又何必要求自己拥有的人、事、物都完美无瑕，没有缺点呢？看得惯残破，也是历练，是豁达，是成熟，是一种人生的境界啊！

I had a friend who had been single for half his life and suddenly got married in his late twenties. The bride was about his age, Princess Xu Zhaopei, in good taste, only the friends who knew whispered, "that woman used to be an actress, married two husbands, both divorced, now not popular, by him to pick up a leftover.". One day, he and I were out driving, "when I was young, I wanted to drive a Mercedes," he said with a laugh. "I had no money and couldn't afford it. Now I still can't afford it. I bought a third-hand car." He drives an old Mercedes. I looked to my left and right and said, "three hands? That looks good! That's a lot of horsepower." "What's wrong with an old car? Just like my wife, who married a Sichuanese and a Shanghainese, and has been in show business for more than 20 years, she has seen many scenes. Now she is old, she has accepted her heart, and she has lost her former delicacy and flamboyance, but she can cook Sichuan and Shanghai Food, and she knows how to decorate her home. To tell you the truth, I met her when she was really perfect," I said. "I couldn't tell she was the porn star that she was.""Yeah!" He patted the steering wheel, "in fact, think about me. Am I Perfect? I'm not a Bug yet. I've had a lot of history, a lot of nonsense. Because we've all been through this, we've all grown up, we've all learned to let go, we've all learned to endure. It's not perfect? This is perfect!" Imperfect is perfect! We're old, we're Rusty, We're Bug, we need to go to the doctor every once in a while to fix our broken bodies, why would we want everything and everyone we own to be perfect and perfect? See used to broken, but also experience, is open-minded, is mature, is a state of life ah!

标题: 不完美的完美
作者: 刘墉
字数: 557
简介: 我有一个朋友，单身半辈子，快五十岁时突然结了婚。新娘跟他的年龄差不多，徐娘半老，风韵犹存，只是知道的朋友都窃窃私语：“那女人以前是个演员，嫁